“Act Like Men”
Lesson Two: Problem Areas
Introduction. Following the principles discussed in the last lesson presents the Christian man with a number of problems and challenges. In this lesson we will discuss some of these difficulties.
I. Lust
- Jesus condemns lust. (Matthew 5:27-30).
- Paul teaches we can become enslaved to lust (Titus 3:3).
- Peter teaches that the world is corrupted through lust (II Pet. 1:4).
- James teaches that desire is the root of all sin (James 1:14,15).
- Lust = desire = covetousness.
- Gr. epithumia (
) - “denotes ‘strong desire’ of any kind…the word is for good desire in Luke 22:15, Phil. 1:23, & I Thess. 2:17 only. Everywhere else it is in a bad sense.” (Vine’s Complete Expository Dictionary. W. E. Vine. Thomas Nelson Publishers: Nashville. 1996).
- Verb used for covetousness in Romans 13:9 & Septuagint (LXX) for Exodus 20:17.
- The Christian must…
- …Abstain from lusts that war against the soul (I Pet. 2:11,12).
- …Pursue the desires of God (John 8:44).
- …Channel lusts appropriately (I Corinthians 7:2-5).
II. Money
- Jesus teaches us not to serve “mammon.” (Matthew 6:24).
- The love of money is the “root of all evil” (I Timothy 6:10).
- A Christian must provide for his own (I Timothy 5:8).
- A Christian must avoid laziness (II Thessalonians 3:10).
- A Christian must avoid overwork (Ecclesiastes 4:6).
- A Christian must work in order to have to give to others (Eph. 4:28).
III. Anger
- The Christian must not be swift to anger (Titus 1:7).
- Christians must put off anger, wrath & malice (Ephesians 4:31; Colossians 3:8).
- The Christian must not sin in his anger (Ephesians 4:26).
- The Christian should remember the Lord’s patience with us (Col. 3:12,13).
IV. Pride
- Pride is not from God the Father (I John 2:16).
- God resists the proud (I Peter 5:5).
- Pride precedes destruction (Proverbs 16:18).
V. Family
- A Christian husband must lead his family (Ephesians 5:23).
- A Christian father must train his children. (Ephesians 6:4).
- A Christian man must not become weighed down with the cares of life (Matthew 13:22; Luke 21:34).
- Some should avoid marriage because of this danger (I Cor. 7:32,33).
- A Christian man must love God above all things. (Matthew 10:32-38).
- The best way to serve our families as we should is to start by serving God as we should.